Breaking Up Talk

Moonstruck asked:


We just broke up. He seems to want me when I’m not available,.when I’ve finally stopped thinking about him. He always wants me when he can’t have me. How can I get him to like me and want me again? I don’t understand that after 3 months of liking me that he could get over so suddenly.,help? Any advice would be nice.

Javier

mileyfan1carson asked:


i need advice on how to break up with a girl. i have almost been going out with her for a year. she’s really nice, but ive started to not like her anymore. what do i do?

Reginald

Scarlet asked:


I had to break up with him because he was seeing someone else and thought he could have both of us, i didnt want to live like. I feel really sick and upset about whats happened does anyone have any advice?

Vincent

?LOVE? asked:


I want to break up with my boyfriend and we’ve been going out for around two weeks. I already broke up once, but he made me feel so bad about it I got back together with him. He’s obsessed with me and it hurts my feelings to break his heart. After breaking up with him I’ll have to see him almost every day because he goes to the same place as I do. Can anyone give me breakup advice and tell me how to handle it afterwards?

Steven

?&? asked:


I’ve just broke up with my boyfriend who I was with for 2 and a half years.
He was my first serious boyfriend, and though I know we broke up for the right reasons i just feel so unhappy.
I know that feeling sadness is completely normal and natural, but i feel so lonely.

I just wondered if anyone had any advice on this issue, any words of wisdom or any stories and similar experiences.

Thank you.

Loretta

~Ronyea Q? asked:


Breaking up and need some advice, tell me what ever you think is good advice for any break-up situation.

Marc

becca071885 asked:


Can anyone tell me the best way to deal with a break-up..ive been with my b/f 4 yrs and we just recently split due to us fighting all the time and because he never seems to want to do anything unlesss it involves a bar…anyway i figured i just need to move on but ive never actually dealt with a break-up..any advice would be helpful

Luis

Thinker asked:


I’ve been dating her for almost two months. We are very close, but I can’t get into this with the loud obnoxious redneck ex-husband, the angry six yr old, and all the rest of the drama.

There is a 4 yr old who is attached to me and, the mother (my gf) cares for me deeply. I am going to break their hearts and I **** it. What is the most mature, respectful way for me to do this and cause the least pain possible.

ty

Yolanda

heather asked:


me and my bf just broke up. it would have been 11 months on friday. i love him so much. and we had plans to move out after he graduated this year, and like talked about the future, together. And he broke up with me yesterday before school started.
i love him so much, and i dont want to lose him
so any advice about how to deal with the break up?
or on how to win him back?
he told me that he still loves me. and that even though we are broken up he doesnt want anyone else.
but thats just making it harder for me to deal with it
thanks in advance!
the how to win him back would be great as well, thats what i want more than coping with it. i want him back!
he tol me he needed time to think, he just left but he said while hes gone he will consider going back out with me. what should i do about all this?
well, i live with him, long story about y that is. but so it just started out as a bad day, for both of us. and we were in a bad mood cuz we were late getting up, and so walking up the hill to school i was carying alot of stuff; my backpack, my gym bag and my purse. adn he was like y do u carry ur purse to school and i was like cuz if my makup smears i can fix it and he was like well thats just proof that ur to ugly for makup. whcih was what started the whole blow up thing. and i no he said it out of anger, but it stil hurt, he even told me that he didnt mean it and that i was the most beautiful thing in his world. but it started a fight about everything bad that has happened so while remembering all the bad he broke up with me, without even thinking about the good!
its not that hes scared of a commited relationship, i asked him about that, and he said hes sick of the fighting, which theres not much of, but there is fighting!, gut its fighting over stpid stuff that ends at the first chance we have to talk about it and to understand.

Carol

sobergirl26 asked:


Hey guys, I really need your advice on this. My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday. I’m 25, he’s 27. We discussed things last week, and he said he doesn’t know if he loves me or not anymore. He said he already gets annoyed and he needs space and time. So it got me into thinking of finally breaking up with him since I think it’s unfair for me if we still have this relationship, and he’s unsure of his feelings. He said he needs time to figure it out if he still loves me. He has feelings for me, he said, but is just confused right now if wants to have the relationship. He wants to have space right now to think about it. He asked me if I can wait for his decision (it may be good or bad and he doesn’t know how long it’ll be) or just break up. At first he did not want to break up, but when I told him I’d rather break up rather than waiting and expecting for something uncertain, he agreed. He finally said he does not want me to be left expecting with nothing at all in the end.. I might just waste my time waiting for nothing. So there it was a mutual break-up. We ended it in good terms, he said we could be friends.

But I’m just so heartbroken right now. We’ve been together for 10 months. Part of me wants him back. He said he will still think if he will still love me while he has his space right now. Do you think he’ll do that? Will he still think about me? Or do I just need to move on and forget about him? Part of me is still expecting that while he’s having his space now, he’ll want me back. I don’t know. May be not. I’m just so depressed right now.

We have a long distance relationship. He’s in New Jersey, while I’m in Austin. We see each other once in 2 months. We’ve known each other’s family and friends. We were serious. But then, he said he got annoyed recently because I keep calling him and he needs his personal space. He just started work for about a month and may be it’s an added factor that he wants to have his time alone. Yeah he said he needs to be alone. Well, I admit that I was a clingy girlfriend, but I learned my lesson. And if he had told me, I could have changed. He just got tired of me. I love him so much and it just really hurts. Two weeks ago, we were together, so happy there in New Jersey. And then suddenly last week, he told me he grew tired of the relationship.
Should I just move on? or should I still wait? He told me that we should stop communicating for a while in order for me to move on. He said if he would realize he still loves me but then I already moved on, then it’s his loss because I was really a good girlfriend. It’s just that according to him, not all couples just get along well. He’s so honest and I appreciate that. It’s just I’m heartbroken right now and constantly thinking about him. And I’m sure there’s no 3rd party involved. It’s all about him having his personal space for now and the confusion if he still loves me or not.
Thanks for listening to me. I’d appreciate advice from you guys. I guess this communication here would somehow lift my spirit up. I just moved here in Austin and I don’t have friends yet. That’s why this is harder for me…

Judith