And how long after the break up if ever do you deal with those feelings? Is the pain intense or is it just thoughts of that person?
Most of us guys suppress the feelings, but they tend to pop up from stimuli that is visual and verbal. It can take along time until you fully move on, and can open up again.
sweet Mildred is in the house…crawl into her playpen
ok like 2 days ago me and my ex started getting more friends and today i found out from his current girly that they just broke up. Please tell me if it was my fault. oh and also she said that he told her it was cause of something she doesnt need to worry bout. Does it sound like i made them broke up??? HEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!
No, its not your fault. I did the same thing with my ex boyfriend. I started talking to him after a while and soon after we started talking, he broke up with his girlfriend. The problem with them wasn’t you in the first place. Fate says that he was going to break up with her anyway, and now he’s got you to fall back on and talk to about it.
Its not your problem if they broke up and it wasn’t your fault. If it was something that the other girl doesn’t need to worry about, then fine, he’ll probably tell you, but it wasn’t you. More than likely, he probably has some family problems goin on or some other problems in school and its really none of her business. Just don’t sweat it.
i just broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year, im having a really hard time, and i know music helps me alot. but i dont know any songs to try and get me over it..any idea..much love
thanks. iv heard some of those before but theres a few iv never even heard of =]
be careful sammantha playing sad songs makes the hurt of a break up last longer your already hurting don’t torture yourself.I know that the last thing you need is to hear is some waffle about joining clubs,hobbies but the only way to get over a hart brake or through hard times is to just have a good cry when you need to, put any reminders of him in a draw and be kind to yourself you have already been through so much already don’t add to you’re pain.
Like he keeps breaking up for every argument but he is in his 30′s?
The next time he breaks up and then wants to make up, tell him that you are tired of the games, and that if he is not into you, then he should stay away. Don’t let him keep doing that to you. You deserve better.
I see it quite often so I’d like to know what people think. Why do couples break up and then get back together after a month or you know, being apart for some time?
They break up to screw around with other people and then they realize how much they THINK they miss each other and get back together just to do it all over again.
u know, sometimes the girls do break the guys’ heart too. but most of them like to blame the guys
The girls are always right
Ok i have a really great boyfriend but im falling out of love with him.I want to end it but he always tells me that if i break up with him he’s gonna do sumthing stupid like hurt himself!! He’s really krayzie!But im tired of his gangster ways .I do love him but not enough 2 be with him. I need a better choice of words to end it…Much help NEEDED!
Well, first of all, if he truly loved you he would:
1. Respect your wishes on breaking up with him
2. Not make you feel guilty if you did break up with him.
You say you don’t like his gangster ways, maybe tell him that if he was just to change that about him you’d stay.
Try this:
" __(enter bf’s name here)__, I am sorry to tell you this, but this isn’t working out. I love you… but I think it’s slowly going downhill though. I just don’t want to lie to you by being with you, when i really don’t share the same feelings you feel about me. It’s not fair to you at all. Love has to work BOTH ways; I have to be in love with you and you have to be in love with me for it to work out. And I don’t think it is. I’m sorry."
Oh I hoped it at least gave you some ideas.
