Break Up Advice Please?
?LOVE? asked:
I want to break up with my boyfriend and we’ve been going out for around two weeks. I already broke up once, but he made me feel so bad about it I got back together with him. He’s obsessed with me and it hurts my feelings to break his heart. After breaking up with him I’ll have to see him almost every day because he goes to the same place as I do. Can anyone give me breakup advice and tell me how to handle it afterwards?
I want to break up with my boyfriend and we’ve been going out for around two weeks. I already broke up once, but he made me feel so bad about it I got back together with him. He’s obsessed with me and it hurts my feelings to break his heart. After breaking up with him I’ll have to see him almost every day because he goes to the same place as I do. Can anyone give me breakup advice and tell me how to handle it afterwards?
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Constance
Make him break up with you!
Then suggest becoming friends!
Ashley
just tell him you don’t like him like that any more and that he has to move on
Troy
just ignore him*
Glen
Tell him that you don’t deserve him. That he is too sweet to you and you don’t know how to handle it. Tell him there are plenty of other girls that would love that much attention, and you don’t think you can.
Clarence
Well hun, you just have to be honest with him. Tell him you think he’s too obsessed with you so he can change, even if its for a different girl. To handle it afterwards, you can still be friends. Talk to him as you would with any of your guy friends. Good luck !
Cory
try to be just friends he should understand you dont want a boyfriend now if you tell him. now if you break up with him and then the next day your holding some guys hand than i just want u to know he will most likely be jlous and pissed!!! sooooooo DONT do that
Justin
You should break up with him, because it seems like that’s what you really want. You shouldn’t be suffering or stuck in a relationship because you feel bad for the other person. After you break up, promise yourself not to get back together with him just for his sake. Then, talk to him and say that it’s not working out and that you do not want to get back together and that you would appreciate it if he respected that. From then on, keep a distance from him. Even though you guys go to the same place, don’t talk to him or make eye contact, and try to avoid that place if possible. In this case, I think distance is the only thing that will really help him to stop liking you. Hope this helps!
Paula
You clearly are not happy. So let him know that, and instead of dragging him along in yalls relationship like a lost dog, have the decency to break up with him. Plus yall only dated for 2 weeks.
Patricia
Very slowly and gradually ignore him / avoid him, until maybe he starts to get the message. Then after a while, say to him ‘This isn’t working out. I’ve given it a second chance and I’m really sorry but I think we’re better off as friends”.
You gave him a second shot, he can’t ask much more from you. Give him space once you’ve broken up but later on slowly start talking to him again, in a friendly way
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Sheila
hun just tell him look you dont think its going to work that your not attracted to him as a gf and you think you both would be better off as friends it will seem messed up at first and hurt but in the end its worth it dont let him make you feel bad i used to play the same game to keep the girl by me and i grew out of it but dont let him do that to you if he wants to try to make you feel bad tell him to not even talk to you at all if he wants to make you feel bad
Tammy
Break up with him because if you don’t you’ll just be deceiving him and that could make things more complicated.Stay friends with him and let the pieces fall into place. Who knows, you might actually fall in love with him after a while. I know how you feel i had the same problem once ^-^ Helped me a lot
Lucille
just do it. if u dont want to date him thats harder than being with him
Ana
just be very nice about it like hey im sorry but i think we should break up. your a great guy and i just dont have the feeling for you i thought i did. i still want to be friends.
what ever he says next im not sure but then just try to keep talking to him so its not awkward next time you see him.
hope it helps!
Melinda
hi there, just sit him down and explain to him that you feel its not working out. that you feel a realtionship is too much for you and you feel your not ready for this commitment. say to him you think he is a great person and he would make a great freind and you would like to stay freinds with him. The sooner you tell him the better it will be for both of you.
If it making you unhappy hun its the best thing to do, you should never stay in a relationship you are not happy in.
goodluck xx
Stephen
If you’ve been dating for 2 weeks your not breaking his heart. AT ALL, in no way shape or from. So just dump him, in 2 weeks he’ll have a new gf.
Shane
I think if you tell him simple and straight that you want to break up with him it will be easier on you both. It sounds like you’re both sensitive people, so the more clear you are that your mind is made up, the less likely he is to try to get you to feel bad about it. There’s nothing to feel bad about, it’s fine to decide after two weeks of dating someone that you aren’t right for each other.
Bryan
cmon girl where’s your self respect?? if you dont like the guy just say to him “sorry, but i dont want to be your girlfriend anymore”
don’t let people bully you.
Melissa
Just dump his @. You need the break and let him get on his own. Is he a wuss? ‘Sounds like it to me.
Judy
The first thing you say is.. you are a wonderful person.. something POSITIVE about him.. make him feel like a great guy..
But then you need to be honest.. and brutal.. you’re an amazing guy, but not someone I see spending the rest of my life with… and I can’t allow this relationship to continue now that I realize this because it’s only going to hurt sooooo much more in the future when I can’t take it any longer.. What I need from you.. what I’ve ALWAYS needed in you is a FRIEND..
And I pray you can forgive me for trying to make our friendship into anything else… I don’t want anything more than a friend out of you.. and I mean that…
You have to be brutal, since you claim he’s obsessed with you.. but you ALWAYS start out with something nice, so he knows you are doing this for HIS benefit too…
Best of luck.. Also.. don’t get yourself INTO this situation again unless you KNOW the guy well enough that you know you like him for him.. and not just b/c you want a bf.. make sure you know he isn’t the obsessive type.. and if you can’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with him DONT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM
Unnecessary hurting never did anyone any good… and I’m SURE you know how much breaking up with someone *****.. don’t forget you could be him one day
Maurice
just be honest with him and let him know how you feel about him and let him know you would still like to be friends if anything and let him know you’d rather have him in your life than not have him in it at all and if he trys to pull the guilt trip on you just let him now you want have anything to do with him. follow your heart