Can Anyone Give Me Any Break Up Advice?
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I’ve just broke up with my boyfriend who I was with for 2 and a half years.
He was my first serious boyfriend, and though I know we broke up for the right reasons i just feel so unhappy.
I know that feeling sadness is completely normal and natural, but i feel so lonely.
I’ve just broke up with my boyfriend who I was with for 2 and a half years.
He was my first serious boyfriend, and though I know we broke up for the right reasons i just feel so unhappy.
I know that feeling sadness is completely normal and natural, but i feel so lonely.
I just wondered if anyone had any advice on this issue, any words of wisdom or any stories and similar experiences.
Thank you.
Loretta
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Renee
Go out and have fun with your friends and eventually you’ll meet someone new or forget about him.
Javier
u could just get a life and move on
Tanya
Obviously, you will feel lonely. You`ve been with him for so long. Try to go out, hang out with friends, get a hobby (eg. yoga). When you are better, try contacting him again and try to be friends. Maybe that will help you move on.
Ron
I had a similar break up. Even though it is tempting make sure you cut off all contact, if you don’t the pain will linger for longer than it should. Go out and have fun with your friends and try going on non-serious dates with a variety of people.
Regina
you will feel lonely because you were with him for so long but what you need to do is go out meet someone new go to a club or a party and just lay back and relax. i would know. i went through it three weeks ago.
Luis
ok its a little harder then what the people are saying if your in love u cant just forget them, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half years, and we broke up before nd its one of the loneliest feeling ever, and you feel so incomplete.. but you just need to try and hang out with friends and kinda show him that it don’t bother you, you can still be his friend, it may be hard but its better then not having him in your life.. go out and make yourself happy, do something you haven’t done in 2 years, you & your girls can go get a spa treatment (:
Evelyn
well to tell you the truth this is goiing on wif i at the momment ii feel sO lOnleyy and ii reliizedd dat ii alsO like girls… a girl can comfert mii mOre then a guyy can && nOw ii fOundd a giirl datt can make mii happy
Jack
If it was for the right reasons then you will get over it sooner than if it were for the wrong reasons. Yea,that is life. Love hurts when it is gone. But it doesn’t last forever. Busy yourself doing something fun. Grant it, you might not have fun right off or feel better right off, but it will help. This is the normal process.
Christine
I would question the break up itself. Is it something you really wanted to do because it doesn’t sound like it to me. It sounds like something occurred and you feel like because of that you had to break up. No one needs advice on how to break up. When its time to leave, they leave and don’t think much about it because that’s what they REALLY wanted to do.
Darryl
actually, i don’t have similar story like u do
but, i’ve ever love a boy, and it’s my first love, but i can’t have him..
i think that i would never love the other boy, but now i really love my boyfriend
first, i want to be his girlfriend because i think it can help me to forget my first love, honestly i don’t love him at the first time..
but slowly, his love make me realize that it make me happy, heal my pain, and fix my broken heart
now i really love him, and i want to be with him forever..
u should find other people too.. but if your ex-boyfriend is the right one for u, he will comeback for u and never leaving..
i hope he is the right one for u and make u happy all the time.. Good Luck ^^
Minnie
First you need to sort your head out… which is hard because right now your heart is overuling.
Put everything and anything that reminds you of him in a shoe box. If you need to, grieve over each item, in your own way. It will help. I imagine right now, all the good times are flashing through your mind. Write them down as they come to you, on a note pad or on your computer. Hide away both the shoe box and notepad/computer file somewhere you don’t see day to day. This helps as it probably will stop you reliving it all – wondering where it went wrong or how you could of done things to make it work.
It will be hard because this person was in your life for 2 and half years. He was a friend aswell as a partner. But on the bright side, it was a great experience, something you will learn an awful lot about. Everyone remembers there 1st love. – corny I know. but it’s true.
When you’ve sorted your head out, its time to stop feeling sad…and to remember the good times, the good things that have come out of it. If it was your first boyfriend, I assume theres no mortgage to figure out, theres no children, so at least there isn’t all of that complicating the matter. This was the very words from my mum, when I split up with my first proper boyfriend of 2 years!
In time the sadness will fade. Surround yourself with your friends and family. Get out of the house. Enjoy your life. Good luck